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Facebook is NOT a GAME :I Here is WHY

Journal Entry: Sun Dec 30, 2012, 6:12 PM
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Hey there! On Facebook,  all I see are teenagers all doing the same thing and there are certain things I would just like to speak out about, being someone who used to be on it excessively, but no more. I just use it for talking and keeping in touch with friends and in 2013, I am making the most out of my life. (This is a rant, so you can feel free to skim if you must. I tend to have a lot to say on my mind and thank you for reading this''. Also, my thoughts are scattered, I honestly just wrote whatever and whenever but tried to make it relevant. I CAME back to this and edited this to make more sense of it clearly.

First of all..all the --> Like 4 like
SUBSCRIBE MY PAGEE! SHOUT OUT FOR SHOUT OUT
tbh tbh tbh?
swag < yolo hehe Facebook is something a lot use excessively for constant demand of feedback and attention. It basically has a huge generation of vain teenagers on it constantly doing nothing and trying to gain online ''rep'' and popularity. It is NOT a game.
Let me tell you, having 2,000 + pals... WHO really knows that many people so well? Do YOU personally know so many people or do you just accept or send many/any request? Think about who you are adding and who can have access to see your stuff once you hit the accept button. There are many people who have 1,000 + pals or up to 5,000. It boggles my mind how it would be an accomplishment to add that many people you do not know or seem like you know so many people, unless you were Jesus Christ or Hitler or..I am being silly, whoopsies :'D You get my statement though, I hope.
WHO CARES HOW MANY FRIENDS YOU GOT ON FACEBOOK?
Photos : Anyways, having photos smoking or alchohol or partying or weed, duckfaces and especially try
ling to look cool having smoke come out of your mouth or having a bong..? Employers and people will see ALL of those photos.
Being shallow and superficial and treating Facebook like everything HAS TO BE PERFECT, is also something I find puzzling. You are just creating a senseless version of yourself that is, ''fake'' or not really you at all, trying to act and appear a certain way or customizing things for fun all the time just because Facebook is like a game or such to you :'O Having all cute or japanese photos or all edited and such too....
IT'S A SOCIAL APP, FOLKS. Honestly in 30 years it will not matter how many likes you have or how many likes your statuses got or who POSTED A FUNNY STATUS or stole a status from you. People are allowed to post as they please but when you take it so seriously and get mad at people for stealing statuses, actimmature or make fun of people online? Not cool, at ALL. ALSO, 13-14 year olds in relationships every week. When I was thirteen I remember some people with a boyfriend or girlfriend in elementary but no one really started dating until 13 or high school. They seem too young to know what true ''love'' is but who knows? O.O Also, just because someone acts a certain way in their online behavior does not necessarily mean that they are the same as in real life when you actually meet them face to face. 

What is impolite : -> People typing  -> '''ILY FAGET .
Faget is a compliment? or EFF YOU B** I LOVE YOU.

That seems a bit offensive and teenagers are constantly swearing online to look cool or be tough. 
 ''oh please marry me on facebook> too. Asking people to marry you for fun on facebook just 'cause; it's a necessity? Don't get me wrong, people do this for fun and best friends do this all the time but when people get lonely and ASK people to ''marry' them like it is a really serious thing, is incredulous.

Finally, so many selfies of you or having SOMEONE else, on purpose to  take a picture of of you and your boo kissing or trying to show off to the world how much in love you are, we could tell by the ''in a relationship'' status :O What about having albums just dedicated with pics of both of you, just trying to prove to the world how much of a couple you are?
If you take photos of yourselves only trying to show off the relationship you have, especially when it is only for Facebook..what the HECK?
Also, people have the ability to personalize and create some IMAGE OF THEMSELVES THEY MUST MAINTAIN and such, personally posting photos or certain themes like it is fun to do or a game, you upload pics for fun all the time etc and even RANDOM PEOPLE ON FACEBOOK WHO HAVE RANDOM LOTS OF SUBSCRIBERS, THAT just screams out vain to me..because they feel like it'ss just something worthwhile to do or that they must live up to a standard and post frequently or try to be someone they are not. 

Also there are many opportunities and people have the CONSTANT NEED FOR FEEDBACK to promote themselves so people pay attention to them. There are  people on facebook who pretend to be cute or have contest battles for the prettiest people and what not or who is the sexiest and who would you date, trying to get more friends or followers so shamelessly :// Self promotion? What FOR?
There are also vain and superficial contests that do not have any purpose other than to try to make yourself famous online and be known for being ''TUMBLR WORTHY'' , ''looking Asian''  or for who has the most likes and all that superficiality. People think that being pretty or internet famous or popular defines themselves..
ADVICE: how popular online will never be the definition of who you are to define yourself as a whole
Also Instagram and filters are alright for fun, but all the time...just..sigh. You are beautiful without all of those filters that hide your natural beauty.

ADVICE : WAIT! EMPLOYERS TEND TO SEARCH YOU UP ON FACEBOOK DID YOU KNOW? NOW YOU DO.
Be careful of what you post and how you act online :O
Who is going to get easy ACCESS TO STALKING YOU\? Anyone. IT'S THE INTERNET :(
PLEASE BE AWARE, I AM SAYING THIS FOR YOUR SAFETY. And for those who already know and are informed, alright <3 epic!

Conclusion :
I thought facebook was just a place to keep in touch withpals/and fam and try to make newpals and to keep and touch and post about what is going on in your life and most likely the majority of people you know have an account.
Sorry If I am not making sense, but I will stay true to myself and my views. I will remain myself just like I am in real life and do not put up a ''sweetheart'' act and do not judge people, but I also like to try to explain and just say my two cents. I prefer a good book over Facebook anyday and to me it is just some ordinary social network site like tumblr or twitter. These are not necessary at all.
It's not an activity, being on the computer is.
If you get an enjoyment online more than your own life, and feel as though you need to be perfect online to get people to see how you truly ARE?  I I hope you can go offline and be happy with your life or take a small break from the computer. This was a little and informative rant I wrote awhile ago about such behaviours on facebook and things that just bug me about it. This is why I am not into social networking. I just got my deviant, weheartit- for happy and inspirational daily pics and this.- Also youtube for adding favourite music.
Choose what you do online wisely but also use proper etiquette online and do not try to be someone you are not where people who do not know you cannot know who you truly are. :'/ That all just seems so pointless, so why don't you just post what you want and be you, and not follow all the hype? Use Facebook for what it really is! Not because you are bored <3 I wrote this because I am concerned and I admit when I first started to use facebook, I became a bit addicted. It's not right and I am glad to be over that, because it taught me a lesson to not be over consumed with online life and to just live my life! :D

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:iconilene-of-astolat:
:clap: You said it.
I'm only on Facebook to keep in touch with my family. I sign on about once a month, maybe update my status with a quote from a book or how my grades are, and I'll like a few posts. I'll sign on to follow some of my favorite artists so they get more exposure. Then that's it. I'm done.
For some people, it seems their entire life revolves around it. :( It's sad to watch.
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=HimitsuUK Apr 24, 2013   Photographer
Facebook appears to be slowly but surely falling from grace and out of fashion. At least here in the UK. A little bit.
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~RoyalInBlue Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Well, isn't that the problem with the internet today. These children really aren't doing anything that is their fault, you have to realise that the media is exposing them to things they shouldn't be thinking about untl they are much older, like sex, drugs and partying. We didn't hear about these things until we were old enough to form responsible decisions and not go nuts. These kids have had no time, and simply go with the flow, because that is what kids do.

Trust me, it's all part of growing up. You remember all those rumours you heard on the playground that were utter nonsense, but you believed because you didn't know better? That is the exact same kind of thing that is happening today, kids are seeing all these things and thinking that they have to act like this. Coupled with parents breaking up and neglecting their children, the kids are left to fend for themselves, with no-one to tell them what is right and wrong.

It might seem like it is entirely their choice, but it really isn't. It's just what is being pushed to them, and they have no choice but to adopt an adult culture, while they are young. It looks like simple stupidity, but there is no such thing as a bad or stupid child. It all stems from their parenting, and how they were raised.
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=LivelovelifeEleni Apr 24, 2013  Student Photographer
I agree! :o
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:iconawesomeduskangel:
I agree with you :/
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~XTheGoldenAppleX Apr 23, 2013  New member Student General Artist
nice
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:iconprincesscreneesha:
This is why, I never got a facebook.
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~MysteriousCreator Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i totally understand this
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Mood: Joy *Scootie-chan Jan 6, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree. ^_^

I just started FB and only use it to keep in touch with contacts who don't have Gmail or Skype. Plus it's a good place to get my artwork seen. ^_^
I'm not interested in creating my image on there, really. It's my business who I date, see, and what I do. I mean, what's the point in posting your entire life on that thing? It's not very wise either. And who the heck cares if your putting on a coat? Seriously? The world needs to know this? Or the people who spend their entire lives updating it? Haha I only spend (at most) 2 hours on it. And I'm mostly just chatting with someone. But I see these people on it who are on 24/7, and wow. All this pointless updating and everything. What's the point? It's a dangerous obsession, and to spend many hours a day of your life on it, that's a pointless addiction. It's just a place to get attention, really. "It's cold outside, I think I'll put on a jacket"...AND?
Jeez. lol
Besides, FB has been a pain in the ass lately to me, so I ain't posting nothing personal. The only thing that goes on there are drawings from dA and here and there. ^^
Hehe I feel extra rant-y today...lol
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